He is mean and angry. I think it is time to stop blaming his behavior and treatment of you on his medical problems. Sure, he has medical problems. Sure, you want to be understanding. But he is also a human being. If he is treating you so badly you should not be made to feel guilty because you want to leave. He will survive without you. You can check up on him occasionally. His illness does not automatically make you a victim of abuse, and you do NOT have to feel guilty about not accepting this. Putting a guilt trip on YOU because HE is abusive is the typical domestic violence problem. Blame the victim. But you keep seeing HIM as the victim. Stop blaming this all on his medical problems and expect him to treat you like a human being, or leave him.
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He is mean and angry. I think it is time to stop blaming his behavior and treatment of you on his medical problems. Sure, he has medical problems. Sure, you want to be understanding. But he is also a human being. If he is treating you so badly you should not be made to feel guilty because you want to leave. He will survive without you. You can check up on him occasionally. His illness does not automatically make you a victim of abuse, and you do NOT have to feel guilty about not accepting this. Putting a guilt trip on YOU because HE is abusive is the typical domestic violence problem. Blame the victim. But you keep seeing HIM as the victim. Stop blaming this all on his medical problems and expect him to treat you like a human being, or leave him.
March 2, 2016 - 10:07amThis Comment
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