It is so good to hear from you--I have thought about you many many times since your original post. I'm so sorry though that things have not gotten any better for you, and in fact are getting tougher. You are an amazing woman and I can sense your strength from reading your words.
Your story reminds me of a question that Dear Abby often uses in her column: are you better off with him or without him? It's a tough question for sure and not one that has an easy answer, but I do think it might be worth thinking about. Like other posters have commented, your husband has already made you the bad guy no matter what you do.
Thank you too for telling us about your beautiful son. I know it must be hard for you and him to watch your husband/his Daddy treat you poorly when he is around.
I wish you the strength that you need to make it through each day, and also to make whatever decision you decide to make. Please know that no matter what, you will have the support of everyone here. We are all rooting for you and your happiness--you deserve it! Please post again whenever you would like. Big hugs to you, Michelle
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Hello there!
It is so good to hear from you--I have thought about you many many times since your original post. I'm so sorry though that things have not gotten any better for you, and in fact are getting tougher. You are an amazing woman and I can sense your strength from reading your words.
Your story reminds me of a question that Dear Abby often uses in her column: are you better off with him or without him? It's a tough question for sure and not one that has an easy answer, but I do think it might be worth thinking about. Like other posters have commented, your husband has already made you the bad guy no matter what you do.
Thank you too for telling us about your beautiful son. I know it must be hard for you and him to watch your husband/his Daddy treat you poorly when he is around.
I wish you the strength that you need to make it through each day, and also to make whatever decision you decide to make. Please know that no matter what, you will have the support of everyone here. We are all rooting for you and your happiness--you deserve it! Please post again whenever you would like. Big hugs to you, Michelle
June 10, 2009 - 9:53pmThis Comment
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