I think you're being really unfair. I am a caregiver for my husband. I've given him my kidney, that lasted seven years.now he's on dialysis at home every day.i nurse as a job and as a wife. There's no physical affection..except when he wants massages from me. I cannot rely on him if I ( rarely) go out..to walk the dogs or even put awash in the machine. He doesn't cook- wash up or Hoover. Our life revolves around him..his conversation revolves around him.he is self obsessed, dull and selfish. He was my world and I loved him so very much.
Now I dread him living long enough that I will hate him. I also dread losing him..because I love him.. I do EVERYTHING...i am tired and worn down- screaming inside while smiling . To tell someone they are a liar is wrong...this is unutterably difficult and if I had my fifteen years over again I would avoid the place we met. Harsh but true.
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I think you're being really unfair. I am a caregiver for my husband. I've given him my kidney, that lasted seven years.now he's on dialysis at home every day.i nurse as a job and as a wife. There's no physical affection..except when he wants massages from me. I cannot rely on him if I ( rarely) go out..to walk the dogs or even put awash in the machine. He doesn't cook- wash up or Hoover. Our life revolves around him..his conversation revolves around him.he is self obsessed, dull and selfish. He was my world and I loved him so very much.
August 13, 2017 - 10:46amNow I dread him living long enough that I will hate him. I also dread losing him..because I love him.. I do EVERYTHING...i am tired and worn down- screaming inside while smiling . To tell someone they are a liar is wrong...this is unutterably difficult and if I had my fifteen years over again I would avoid the place we met. Harsh but true.
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