Hello Anon - Thanks for updating us on your situation and also for sharing the books you've been reading. You sound stronger and have obviously given a lot of time and thought into focusing on your own needs.
I hope you will also consider what would be best for YOU in terms of couples counseling. You mentioned that you had doubts because "he doesn't think that we need counseling together. " What do you think? Is this important to you? What is his refusal to go saying to you at a gut level?
Women have a very strong intuitive sense about things, and sometimes we go with it, and sometimes we don't. Couples counseling seems like a really important area in repairing and rebuilding your relationship so you can come together as a team.
We're here to help you in sorting all this out, and look forward to your next update.
Take good care,
Pat
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Hello Anon - Thanks for updating us on your situation and also for sharing the books you've been reading. You sound stronger and have obviously given a lot of time and thought into focusing on your own needs.
I hope you will also consider what would be best for YOU in terms of couples counseling. You mentioned that you had doubts because "he doesn't think that we need counseling together. " What do you think? Is this important to you? What is his refusal to go saying to you at a gut level?
Women have a very strong intuitive sense about things, and sometimes we go with it, and sometimes we don't. Couples counseling seems like a really important area in repairing and rebuilding your relationship so you can come together as a team.
We're here to help you in sorting all this out, and look forward to your next update.
October 19, 2009 - 5:26pmTake good care,
Pat
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