His relatives do get to enjoy the short visits with him or seeing him on holidays, but I can tell they are glad not to have to deal with him all the time. Like I said in the earlier post, his relatives are finally showing their hands... that they knew he was messed up before I ever knew him and they just didn't want to say anything to me.
I understand their positions. It's hard for them to put up with him, and I have to believe it is super difficult with a mother in that condition. My mother is a piece of work herself ... not borderline... but maybe a step below Antisocial Personality Disorder.
I am grateful not to have such terrible personality disorders myself. I'm just the silly girl that feeds into them out of habit. :)
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Well said.
His relatives do get to enjoy the short visits with him or seeing him on holidays, but I can tell they are glad not to have to deal with him all the time. Like I said in the earlier post, his relatives are finally showing their hands... that they knew he was messed up before I ever knew him and they just didn't want to say anything to me.
I understand their positions. It's hard for them to put up with him, and I have to believe it is super difficult with a mother in that condition. My mother is a piece of work herself ... not borderline... but maybe a step below Antisocial Personality Disorder.
I am grateful not to have such terrible personality disorders myself. I'm just the silly girl that feeds into them out of habit. :)
October 25, 2009 - 12:37amThis Comment
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