I agree. He told me that he wants to try to fight it, and if he is legitimately attempting to get help or find a way to deal positively, then I'll stay. He probably won't go to counseling - I've tried and he was never enthusiastic. We even went for a short time, but he never really engaged. I did tell him, however, that we would leave if he became toxic to me or the kids, or if the situation negatively affected the kids to the point where I know that being away would be better for them, and for me.
He understood. He probably does, more than anyone could, considering that he's lived through it with his mother so he knows how bad it can get. I know that, in his heart, he doesn't want us to go through this, and I think that he will eventually end it with me if things go really bad just to spare us all.
I hate this. It sucks. Thanks for your comment.
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I agree. He told me that he wants to try to fight it, and if he is legitimately attempting to get help or find a way to deal positively, then I'll stay. He probably won't go to counseling - I've tried and he was never enthusiastic. We even went for a short time, but he never really engaged. I did tell him, however, that we would leave if he became toxic to me or the kids, or if the situation negatively affected the kids to the point where I know that being away would be better for them, and for me.
September 5, 2011 - 8:42pmHe understood. He probably does, more than anyone could, considering that he's lived through it with his mother so he knows how bad it can get. I know that, in his heart, he doesn't want us to go through this, and I think that he will eventually end it with me if things go really bad just to spare us all.
I hate this. It sucks. Thanks for your comment.
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