First things first. Take a breath and realize you have many orgasmic years ahead of you.
Next, learn and explore your body. As much as your boyfriend wants to please you, the best chance of this is if you tell or show him what you like. However, since you don't know, it might be time for alone experimentation.
It is highly unlikely you have a sexual dysfunction preventing orgasm since you are able to accomplish this with water stimulation.
Also, you mentioned you are often not able to orgasm because you get too sensitive. A good way around this might be switching up direct clitoral stimulation and penetration with fingering, etc.
Additionally, you might want to ask your boyfriend to join you in the shower and try some new things there, since that's what works so far.
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Anon-
First things first. Take a breath and realize you have many orgasmic years ahead of you.
Next, learn and explore your body. As much as your boyfriend wants to please you, the best chance of this is if you tell or show him what you like. However, since you don't know, it might be time for alone experimentation.
It is highly unlikely you have a sexual dysfunction preventing orgasm since you are able to accomplish this with water stimulation.
Also, you mentioned you are often not able to orgasm because you get too sensitive. A good way around this might be switching up direct clitoral stimulation and penetration with fingering, etc.
Additionally, you might want to ask your boyfriend to join you in the shower and try some new things there, since that's what works so far.
Good luck and orgasm away . . .
January 27, 2009 - 2:24pmThis Comment
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