When I was a virgin I could only fit one finger (ring size 5.5) inside me unless I was incredibly lubricated (and sometimes that was hard). Now, I can still only fit one finger inside me unless really lubricated.
I do not know if it will be the same with you or not, but I have pain upon entry localized at my perineum. So far, this has happened every time he goes in and is sore when touched for a few days afterwards. However, this is not a hymen issue. I just have to get that little area desensitized (so it stretches easier or something, I don't know).
Tampons are still difficult to put in, but they get easier as you learn your body a little better.
It did hurt my perineum, but felt great once he was in.
**Being scared will make you tighten up more and increase the likelihood your first time will hurt. If you are not ready, don't do it.
**You need to be VERY lubricated, his penis will be thicker than your finger, and will stretch those vagina walls.
It's likely you may be sore (my vaginal canal wasn't after he was out and even the perineum didn't hurt if nothing was touching it). *Remember, those walls are made to stretch! but take your time and don't keep going if it hurts too much.
I'm not sure if I answered your question at all, but I wish you good luck and a pleasant experience.
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Every woman is different.
When I was a virgin I could only fit one finger (ring size 5.5) inside me unless I was incredibly lubricated (and sometimes that was hard). Now, I can still only fit one finger inside me unless really lubricated.
I do not know if it will be the same with you or not, but I have pain upon entry localized at my perineum. So far, this has happened every time he goes in and is sore when touched for a few days afterwards. However, this is not a hymen issue. I just have to get that little area desensitized (so it stretches easier or something, I don't know).
Tampons are still difficult to put in, but they get easier as you learn your body a little better.
It did hurt my perineum, but felt great once he was in.
**Being scared will make you tighten up more and increase the likelihood your first time will hurt. If you are not ready, don't do it.
**You need to be VERY lubricated, his penis will be thicker than your finger, and will stretch those vagina walls.
It's likely you may be sore (my vaginal canal wasn't after he was out and even the perineum didn't hurt if nothing was touching it). *Remember, those walls are made to stretch! but take your time and don't keep going if it hurts too much.
I'm not sure if I answered your question at all, but I wish you good luck and a pleasant experience.
February 2, 2009 - 10:33amThis Comment
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