Dear Anon,
I think you have been given some good information here. It is absolutely normal to be a virgin and not be able to fit more than a finger inside of you-- pain when doing so is normal too!
At this point it is probably hard for you to imagine how you could possibly have pleasurable sex when a finger barely fits (I have been there--I know!) Well, without getting too graphic, I also wondered how I was going to give birth to a child and I did it :)
Don't worry too much about the size, every woman was created differently.
I can tell you that the first time I tried using a tampon, I was extremely uncomfortable. I didn't do it right because I wasn't relaxed (and I had already lost my virginity). Good Luck to you, I'm sure you have nothing to worry about.
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Dear Anon,
June 19, 2009 - 5:26amI think you have been given some good information here. It is absolutely normal to be a virgin and not be able to fit more than a finger inside of you-- pain when doing so is normal too!
At this point it is probably hard for you to imagine how you could possibly have pleasurable sex when a finger barely fits (I have been there--I know!) Well, without getting too graphic, I also wondered how I was going to give birth to a child and I did it :)
Don't worry too much about the size, every woman was created differently.
I can tell you that the first time I tried using a tampon, I was extremely uncomfortable. I didn't do it right because I wasn't relaxed (and I had already lost my virginity). Good Luck to you, I'm sure you have nothing to worry about.
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