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Hi I have been married for 10 years but have been suffering for three years from an unusual high sex drive. I am 46 now but before, my sex drive was normal. Before I would have sex and I would not have any feelings of wanting more after intercourse. Now the sensation of arousal is always there and I feel in the vulvar part including clitoris, the urethra and the labias.
I have seen many doctors and none has been able to help me. I have seen OBGYN's, and newrologyst but they look at me like if I was crazy and do not take me serious. The feelings start with burning and then the arousal comes. But even though I have sex with my husband, also I have the need to masturbate sometimes, and when I do it the sensation gets worst. One thing I have noticed lately is that one thing that triggers the symptoms is when I get irritated due to an argument with my husband. I get upset and engage in a fight with him, then I feel that the arausal is coming. I have not kids, and my life with him has been very irritable, always fighting and one reason I have not left him is this one. Before I did not have a problem, I could fight and get in an argument all I wanted and I would not feel anything but now I have this problem. Why is it that the feelings of having sex increase when I get in a fight? Is there a chemical that my body releases that affects that area? I am realy desperate because this has interfered with my life totally, I am not the same anymore, I have lost power over almost everything due to this, I cannot concentrate anymore, I cry because I do not want to feel anything. I feel traped and no matter what activity I do or when I am at work the burning sensation is there constaly. Help me please.

April 2, 2009 - 11:28pm

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