Hi Alisson, I am sorry I did not reply sooner.
I have read your response.
I had not thought about seeing a therapist...a mental therapist? or a Sexual Therapist? where can I find one online? I would realy like to see one.
The symptoms that you mentioned sound familiar to me. They are kind of the same when I get in to a fight with him, and yes..you guessed..he does not get turned on..I live a very monotonous life....work, home, school, park (I have two doggies), back home to cook, clean and so forth...my husband is a good person but in the 10 years of marriage many things have happened that have kind of trapped me in this environment from which I will find very difficult to leave.
Although my personal life is not normal, I know of couples that fight, and do not know what harmony is in their marriage, and the wives don't have the problem I have...Also the arousal does not only come when I am upset, it can come any time.
I do not have the urge as bad as the other lady has, although I can understand her frustion, but I have to say that the other lady that just turn 50, and whom her problem started after she had lost wait...well, I have to relate to her 100%, because I can remember as if it was yesterday, March 2005...Ironically my problem also started after I had lost weight, I was in a limited calory intake and went to the gym 5 days week, and after almost three of being on the program I started feeling the urge, the first feelings I had were in the clitoral and the urethra sides, the feelings came along with irritation and a UTI, it was horrible because I did not know why I was feeling that. At first I thought it was just an arousal that after having an intercourse would go away as always....but this time never did...it has stayed ever since and has affected my life in any aspect...emotional, physical (I gained weight again), at work (although I do not have to take brakes to masturbate) but still bothers, I have isolated myself from the whole world. My husband though has been very understanding, like I never thought he would and has been very gentle, even has gone with me to the doctors...but nobody can help me with what I feel...it is sad...to sad...I cry everyday...I was doing great at school but I loose concentration, so I am only one class...I have to make an effort to go to work and put a happy face when internally I feel miserable....sorry but I cannot help venting all this out...only one that has the same problem can understand what is going through in life with this...
Thanks.
Hope is my name.
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Hi Alisson, I am sorry I did not reply sooner.
July 8, 2009 - 10:44amI have read your response.
I had not thought about seeing a therapist...a mental therapist? or a Sexual Therapist? where can I find one online? I would realy like to see one.
The symptoms that you mentioned sound familiar to me. They are kind of the same when I get in to a fight with him, and yes..you guessed..he does not get turned on..I live a very monotonous life....work, home, school, park (I have two doggies), back home to cook, clean and so forth...my husband is a good person but in the 10 years of marriage many things have happened that have kind of trapped me in this environment from which I will find very difficult to leave.
Although my personal life is not normal, I know of couples that fight, and do not know what harmony is in their marriage, and the wives don't have the problem I have...Also the arousal does not only come when I am upset, it can come any time.
I do not have the urge as bad as the other lady has, although I can understand her frustion, but I have to say that the other lady that just turn 50, and whom her problem started after she had lost wait...well, I have to relate to her 100%, because I can remember as if it was yesterday, March 2005...Ironically my problem also started after I had lost weight, I was in a limited calory intake and went to the gym 5 days week, and after almost three of being on the program I started feeling the urge, the first feelings I had were in the clitoral and the urethra sides, the feelings came along with irritation and a UTI, it was horrible because I did not know why I was feeling that. At first I thought it was just an arousal that after having an intercourse would go away as always....but this time never did...it has stayed ever since and has affected my life in any aspect...emotional, physical (I gained weight again), at work (although I do not have to take brakes to masturbate) but still bothers, I have isolated myself from the whole world. My husband though has been very understanding, like I never thought he would and has been very gentle, even has gone with me to the doctors...but nobody can help me with what I feel...it is sad...to sad...I cry everyday...I was doing great at school but I loose concentration, so I am only one class...I have to make an effort to go to work and put a happy face when internally I feel miserable....sorry but I cannot help venting all this out...only one that has the same problem can understand what is going through in life with this...
Thanks.
Hope is my name.
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