Island Girl, no wonder you're feeling the loss so deeply. This is really recent for you.
This was a huge loss, and you're just a month into it. You're grieving a dream that had a lot of individual pieces -- to be pregnant, to carry a child, to give birth, to be a mom again, to raise a child made by you and your husband. Of course you're having a tough time working your way through it.
You sound like a thoughtful, giving soul, however, and I have no doubt that if you foster or adopt, the moment they place another baby in your arms, you will be nearly as joyful as you would be if it were biologically yours. Take care, go easy on yourself, and when some of the hurt subsides, you'll be able to see what comes next.
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Island Girl, no wonder you're feeling the loss so deeply. This is really recent for you.
This was a huge loss, and you're just a month into it. You're grieving a dream that had a lot of individual pieces -- to be pregnant, to carry a child, to give birth, to be a mom again, to raise a child made by you and your husband. Of course you're having a tough time working your way through it.
You sound like a thoughtful, giving soul, however, and I have no doubt that if you foster or adopt, the moment they place another baby in your arms, you will be nearly as joyful as you would be if it were biologically yours. Take care, go easy on yourself, and when some of the hurt subsides, you'll be able to see what comes next.
February 19, 2009 - 9:55amThis Comment
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