I think what bothers me most is I, unfortunately, have a one year old who was in the hospital until he was about 9 months old and i would have given ANYTHING to take away his problems. It killed me to see him miserable and every time he went back into ICU she would bring her son to the dr and say he was having trouble breathing, that he wouldnt eat, that he had bloody stools, and so on... Then asking her husband about this he would say their son was fine. I irritates me to no end that people want their kids to be sick because they think it is a great chance for attention. I have 2 boys. (1 yr & 2yrs). my one year old has asthma and issues with a constant cough that when he was a baby would cause him to stop breathing while my two year old has an autoimmune problem and is losing his hair(alopecia). While niether of them are seriously ill i would still LOVE for them to be completely healthy (as any parent should). i would GLADLY give up every piece of my hair for my 2 year old to keep his and would take my sons asthma and constant lung issues so he could be healthy.
And another thing was after she had her 1st child she told everyone at work that she was told by the doctor that she would never be able to have another child. she acted very depressed did all kinds of crying and left work and of course got everyone's sympathy. Just a couple months after that (completely forgetting the fact that "she can't have kids") she told us that she was trying for another one. About a year ago she faked a miscarriage. she told us first that she had a miscairrage and that she was going to have to have surgery. Her husband was upset about her miscairrage. Then she ended up actually pregnant a month later. when i asked her how she was pregnant so soon after her miscairrage. i told her normally there is a minimum of 3 months that u have to wait to try again to give your body time to heal she said she must have not acyually had a miscairrage.
Now with her current pregnency she has been trying to get the doctor to induce or do a C section for the past month and she is not due for another 6 weeks. Today i got a text message from her saying she is going to the hospital because she "fell down the steps directly onto her tummy." i have seen her steps, they are 2 steps under the carport to get into her house and she would have to fall at some kind of wierd angle to directly fall on her stomache without thinkin to put her hands out first. I dotn know if she purposely fell or if she is faking the "fall" so she can go to the hospital and get some attention.
Her mother and father in law notice all of this and we talk about it a lot. we all agree that her husband doesnt want to accept that she has problems and most likely will never change. they have already tried talking to him and they stay out of it now because when she is mad at them she doesnt let him bring their little boy see them and he gets angry when any one gets invovled.
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I think what bothers me most is I, unfortunately, have a one year old who was in the hospital until he was about 9 months old and i would have given ANYTHING to take away his problems. It killed me to see him miserable and every time he went back into ICU she would bring her son to the dr and say he was having trouble breathing, that he wouldnt eat, that he had bloody stools, and so on... Then asking her husband about this he would say their son was fine. I irritates me to no end that people want their kids to be sick because they think it is a great chance for attention. I have 2 boys. (1 yr & 2yrs). my one year old has asthma and issues with a constant cough that when he was a baby would cause him to stop breathing while my two year old has an autoimmune problem and is losing his hair(alopecia). While niether of them are seriously ill i would still LOVE for them to be completely healthy (as any parent should). i would GLADLY give up every piece of my hair for my 2 year old to keep his and would take my sons asthma and constant lung issues so he could be healthy.
March 19, 2010 - 1:32pmAnd another thing was after she had her 1st child she told everyone at work that she was told by the doctor that she would never be able to have another child. she acted very depressed did all kinds of crying and left work and of course got everyone's sympathy. Just a couple months after that (completely forgetting the fact that "she can't have kids") she told us that she was trying for another one. About a year ago she faked a miscarriage. she told us first that she had a miscairrage and that she was going to have to have surgery. Her husband was upset about her miscairrage. Then she ended up actually pregnant a month later. when i asked her how she was pregnant so soon after her miscairrage. i told her normally there is a minimum of 3 months that u have to wait to try again to give your body time to heal she said she must have not acyually had a miscairrage.
Now with her current pregnency she has been trying to get the doctor to induce or do a C section for the past month and she is not due for another 6 weeks. Today i got a text message from her saying she is going to the hospital because she "fell down the steps directly onto her tummy." i have seen her steps, they are 2 steps under the carport to get into her house and she would have to fall at some kind of wierd angle to directly fall on her stomache without thinkin to put her hands out first. I dotn know if she purposely fell or if she is faking the "fall" so she can go to the hospital and get some attention.
Her mother and father in law notice all of this and we talk about it a lot. we all agree that her husband doesnt want to accept that she has problems and most likely will never change. they have already tried talking to him and they stay out of it now because when she is mad at them she doesnt let him bring their little boy see them and he gets angry when any one gets invovled.
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