Great post - thanks for sharing! I married the love of my life 4 years ago and we had some ups and downs but had a "normal" marriage or so I thought. A psychotic break later followed by numerous tests revealed that he was walking around with several undiagnosed mental illnesses (including bipolar disorder). We have found some ways to make our marriage work, even though the statistics are stacked against us.
We feel that we have gotten to a point that we can share our journey with other people to be used as a resource. So, we have started a blog at www.thebipolarmarriage.com. If you are struggling with bipolar disorder along with your spouse check it out, you might find some resources you have been looking for.