My teen year old daughter has had her first menstrual cycle. And while a agree that waiting would be great, Ive always thought it was our duty to prepare them. We may not want them having sex. but we don't control them, all we can do is be supportive, teach them the importance of condoms and birth control. Having parents help rather then make demands is the key to helping our kids. It may make us mothers uncomfortable but keeping our kids safe is key. It ll comes down to communication out their bodies and help to make smart choices sexual.
Parents are the support and that key to safe sex, because whether or not parents try t stop it they will just go elsewhere. The arguments are pointless kids will d hat they want we just have to show them there safe options