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I agree with you, Silver Girl, that allowing your husband to take nude pictures of you wouldn't be all that healthy -- and not just for him, but for you as well, because you obviously don't approve of his focus on porn. If it were me, I absolutely wouldn't let him do that.

This reminds me of a relationship I was in where my partner was into porn, and in the beginning I tried to get into it too, but frankly, it just really bored me. I just couldn't see the need for it when we had each other. I couldn't understand his fascination with it, and after a while I felt that it was a little demeaning. Unfortunately, I never spoke out about it -- looking back I wish I had nipped it in the bud because it ended up being this thing that inside I always resented. I would encourage you to speak very openly about it with your husband and let him know that you don't approve of it, that you're uncomfortable, etc., and see how he responds. Let us know what you end up doing and how it goes.... I'd be curious to know what your husband's reaction is.