I think porn is a problem for so many as it takes you out of your real life into this fantasy that you think you want. I have some naked photos of my wife (not digital) from when we first got married. It is fun to think of them from time to time and I when I come across them it is fun, does not happen much as they are hidden away.
I often think of getting rid of them so no one can find them and post them online as that would be devastating to my wife and would break my heart as she is mine and mine alone.
Since your husband has the problem it is good not to take the photos. He would no doubt post them or trade them. Pray for you husband as the world today sees no harm in posting and looking at porn.
Okay time for me to get on soap box: I see porn tearing marriages apart, hindering good judgment, as a society we are debasing ourselves. This tacit if not open acceptance of porn is rotting our minds. Just like you are what you eat, you mind is what you let into it.
Anon4now:
You found one of your wife's love languages "Acts of service".
That is good. I once heard this said about men and women.
Women are like cooking in a crock pot as they take all day to get ready.
While men are like microwaves ready in just a minute.
So you have to be preparing your wife all day long by loving on her in nice ways she likes (doing the laundry, Cooking dinner, giving her a nice hug or soft touches on her back ...). It's all about timing.
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I think porn is a problem for so many as it takes you out of your real life into this fantasy that you think you want. I have some naked photos of my wife (not digital) from when we first got married. It is fun to think of them from time to time and I when I come across them it is fun, does not happen much as they are hidden away.
I often think of getting rid of them so no one can find them and post them online as that would be devastating to my wife and would break my heart as she is mine and mine alone.
Since your husband has the problem it is good not to take the photos. He would no doubt post them or trade them. Pray for you husband as the world today sees no harm in posting and looking at porn.
Okay time for me to get on soap box: I see porn tearing marriages apart, hindering good judgment, as a society we are debasing ourselves. This tacit if not open acceptance of porn is rotting our minds. Just like you are what you eat, you mind is what you let into it.
Anon4now:
June 3, 2009 - 10:27amYou found one of your wife's love languages "Acts of service".
That is good. I once heard this said about men and women.
Women are like cooking in a crock pot as they take all day to get ready.
While men are like microwaves ready in just a minute.
So you have to be preparing your wife all day long by loving on her in nice ways she likes (doing the laundry, Cooking dinner, giving her a nice hug or soft touches on her back ...). It's all about timing.
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