Your title says that your boyfriend is having trouble obtaining and keeping his erection. How long has this been going on? Have you two talked about this? It is very normal for men (I'm assuming he's in his teens or twenties?), as all kinds of things could be happening...is he stressed or have any changes going on in his life?
The other part of the equation (from your message) is that he does not ejaculate in "your" favorite position, and he ejaculates only in "his" favorite position...and the problem here is that neither of you like the other's position. Is that correct? This tells me that he is able to maintain his erection, if he ejaculates, right? My response to that question is: there are MANY more positions to try then just the two you mentioned, and even MORE ways to reach orgasm than only through intercourse.
I'm not sure if I understand the problem, exactly. Have you two tried lots of other positions that you both enjoy? Have you two tried not having intercourse, and have stimulated each other in other ways?
Please write back if I did not understand your question; more information would greatly help!
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Hi,
I'm not sure I understand your question.
Your title says that your boyfriend is having trouble obtaining and keeping his erection. How long has this been going on? Have you two talked about this? It is very normal for men (I'm assuming he's in his teens or twenties?), as all kinds of things could be happening...is he stressed or have any changes going on in his life?
The other part of the equation (from your message) is that he does not ejaculate in "your" favorite position, and he ejaculates only in "his" favorite position...and the problem here is that neither of you like the other's position. Is that correct? This tells me that he is able to maintain his erection, if he ejaculates, right? My response to that question is: there are MANY more positions to try then just the two you mentioned, and even MORE ways to reach orgasm than only through intercourse.
I'm not sure if I understand the problem, exactly. Have you two tried lots of other positions that you both enjoy? Have you two tried not having intercourse, and have stimulated each other in other ways?
Please write back if I did not understand your question; more information would greatly help!
There are some great books that you and your boyfriend can read, if you're interested:
March 19, 2009 - 12:21pm- Sex Therapist Dr. Laura Berman's book
- Hot Monogamy
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