ramon thanx for advice i'm in a relationship with an older man and we have been together for 17 yrs. the relationship is amazing except for the sex and i have mentioned my frustration which has led to his performance anxiety and i believe that's the major problem.he's very healthy .both of us are attractive so the only thing i can guess is that after 17 yrs. he's no longer attracted to me . my only solution at this time is to stay in the relationship cause we are in deep love so i told him if he needs to go outside the relationship for sex by all means go ahead because i can not keep being made to feel bad cause of his lack of performance it's taking a toll on my self esteem and mental stability .i how ever was told not to have sex outside relationship (by him) . so alas any advice is welcomed or i'm doomed to a sexless life and i'm a very sexual being and i'm just 35. so sad
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ramon thanx for advice i'm in a relationship with an older man and we have been together for 17 yrs. the relationship is amazing except for the sex and i have mentioned my frustration which has led to his performance anxiety and i believe that's the major problem.he's very healthy .both of us are attractive so the only thing i can guess is that after 17 yrs. he's no longer attracted to me . my only solution at this time is to stay in the relationship cause we are in deep love so i told him if he needs to go outside the relationship for sex by all means go ahead because i can not keep being made to feel bad cause of his lack of performance it's taking a toll on my self esteem and mental stability .i how ever was told not to have sex outside relationship (by him) . so alas any advice is welcomed or i'm doomed to a sexless life and i'm a very sexual being and i'm just 35. so sad
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