That's a good book. There is also a book by Daphne Rose Kingma titled "Coming Apart - Why relationships end and how to live through the endIng of yours". Ms. Kingma is a marriage counselor who admits that her job is to keep people from killing each other durring the divorce! She breaks down the process of un-loving someone and starting fresh very well. For those who have never gone through divorce or separation, this book is like having a guide so you know what to expect (from an emotional point of view) around every corner. It is also a great book because it helps you to recognize if your relationship can be restored.