Iv only been married 1 yr ONE and he doesnt touch me look at me nothing and it has been this way from the begginning .i feel so ugly and repulsive to him. im tired of us having sex when he wants it. he told me he felt obligated to make love to me bc I have needs. he also said its bc he doesnt like my breast ,im almost 24 and iv had three children i cant get any help from any one to get a boob job. why cant he just love me for me? he says sex doesnt define a relationship,but it sure as hell helps.. thats not how a marriage should be in only a yr... is it me???