Hi there, Im not sure if "hardly ever" can be so easily described. Its different for everyone. Some people dont have sex even that many times a week, some people do it only 2 times a week and some a month. I think you can figure it out by how many times you and your partner had sex before, for, for me it was 10 times a week and its now 2 times a week and I class that as "hardly ever" for my relationship. On another note you have never had an orgasm either, that will be contributing to the lack of sexual drive, if there's no pleasure what's it all for right,LOL. I know from personal experience. After having my children I slowly but surely lost my ability to have an orgasm all together and I lost my urge to have sex too. After 6 years now it has really strained my relationship with my husband, right down to the point that my very sexual husband doesn't want sex either. So I decided to do something about it. I got a blood test to check hormones and my testosterone was low but the side affects of a replacement was not something i wanted....so i mustered up enough courage to go down to the local adult store and i brought some female stimulation gel and a small power bullet (small stimulator vibrator) to use during sex with my husband. It works great, both of these things worked for me, after 6 years of not having an O, now i do. THANK THE LORD. Try something different because although sex is not every thing it is a very big part of a healthy relationship.
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Hi there, Im not sure if "hardly ever" can be so easily described. Its different for everyone. Some people dont have sex even that many times a week, some people do it only 2 times a week and some a month. I think you can figure it out by how many times you and your partner had sex before, for, for me it was 10 times a week and its now 2 times a week and I class that as "hardly ever" for my relationship. On another note you have never had an orgasm either, that will be contributing to the lack of sexual drive, if there's no pleasure what's it all for right,LOL. I know from personal experience. After having my children I slowly but surely lost my ability to have an orgasm all together and I lost my urge to have sex too. After 6 years now it has really strained my relationship with my husband, right down to the point that my very sexual husband doesn't want sex either. So I decided to do something about it. I got a blood test to check hormones and my testosterone was low but the side affects of a replacement was not something i wanted....so i mustered up enough courage to go down to the local adult store and i brought some female stimulation gel and a small power bullet (small stimulator vibrator) to use during sex with my husband. It works great, both of these things worked for me, after 6 years of not having an O, now i do. THANK THE LORD. Try something different because although sex is not every thing it is a very big part of a healthy relationship.
April 8, 2009 - 10:24pmThis Comment
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