Good for you for already talking to your boyfriend about this and for knowing that playing it safe is the way to go from here on out. I think your experience with your Mom is exactly like what many other girls (and guys!) your age are going through. I know exactly what you are talking about with your Mom. Maybe over time you can feel more comfortable asking her a few questions, just to start communicating. She might surprise you and be very helpful.
I believe that when you first start getting your period the cycle length can vary quite a bit at first before getting more regular. I even remember that happening with me when I was young. I honestly don't know of any remedies that make your period come any sooner. As for getting less stressed, maybe try some deep breathing exercises like breathe in and hold it for 3-5 seconds, then breathe out and hold it for 3-5 seconds, and repeat this several times. Or going for walks can be relaxing too. Talking about your feelings and getting things out is good too, so either here or with your boyfriend.
Please post again and let us know what's going on--I hope your period has shown up by now. Big hugs, M
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Good for you for already talking to your boyfriend about this and for knowing that playing it safe is the way to go from here on out. I think your experience with your Mom is exactly like what many other girls (and guys!) your age are going through. I know exactly what you are talking about with your Mom. Maybe over time you can feel more comfortable asking her a few questions, just to start communicating. She might surprise you and be very helpful.
I believe that when you first start getting your period the cycle length can vary quite a bit at first before getting more regular. I even remember that happening with me when I was young. I honestly don't know of any remedies that make your period come any sooner. As for getting less stressed, maybe try some deep breathing exercises like breathe in and hold it for 3-5 seconds, then breathe out and hold it for 3-5 seconds, and repeat this several times. Or going for walks can be relaxing too. Talking about your feelings and getting things out is good too, so either here or with your boyfriend.
Please post again and let us know what's going on--I hope your period has shown up by now. Big hugs, M
April 1, 2009 - 11:46pmThis Comment
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