A sugar daddy... :-)
You know I only think of it that way when he is "significantly" older (20 yrs or more) and certainly when there is an obvious pay scale difference between the two! However, look at Calista Flockhart and Harrison Ford ... she is financially independent. In that case, with the vast difference in ages but pay scale is the same... seems like a female with Daddy Issues... although that may not always be the case.
I honestly don't see how it's possible for two people to be together when one is old enough to have parented the other one... but then again I guess I don't know the dynamics of the situation. I suppose I think it is strange because they are from two completely differnt eras... seems like the gap is too large. But maybe they just get along or have similar interests or passionately follow a similar cause.
Your situation is more than a OLDER man and YOUNGER woman thing. Your mom got robbed... he left her alone (without having passed away) in her grandparenting years. When that companionship is earned and expected to BE there! Now she is forced to find a new partner to have that back or be alone and that is probably, to me... one of the most horrible things I can imagine. Even with the unfaithfulness involved. I hate to say this but Karma is gonna pay him back, she will cheat on him for sure... no doubt and I wouldn't be surprised if she doesn't leave him and clean out his account in court. Mean to think of but that is Karma!
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A sugar daddy... :-)
You know I only think of it that way when he is "significantly" older (20 yrs or more) and certainly when there is an obvious pay scale difference between the two! However, look at Calista Flockhart and Harrison Ford ... she is financially independent. In that case, with the vast difference in ages but pay scale is the same... seems like a female with Daddy Issues... although that may not always be the case.
I honestly don't see how it's possible for two people to be together when one is old enough to have parented the other one... but then again I guess I don't know the dynamics of the situation. I suppose I think it is strange because they are from two completely differnt eras... seems like the gap is too large. But maybe they just get along or have similar interests or passionately follow a similar cause.
Your situation is more than a OLDER man and YOUNGER woman thing. Your mom got robbed... he left her alone (without having passed away) in her grandparenting years. When that companionship is earned and expected to BE there! Now she is forced to find a new partner to have that back or be alone and that is probably, to me... one of the most horrible things I can imagine. Even with the unfaithfulness involved. I hate to say this but Karma is gonna pay him back, she will cheat on him for sure... no doubt and I wouldn't be surprised if she doesn't leave him and clean out his account in court. Mean to think of but that is Karma!
July 20, 2009 - 2:30pmThis Comment
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