It's not the men you really want sex with. You miss your sexlife as it was before your husband cheated on you and that was a time where you both had a "clean slate". The men you are desiring do 'so to speak
' represent that missing clean slate since you have no negative experiences with them. It would be a bit like a "fresh start" with each of them and therfore no negative feelings and therfore relaxter sex and lust. You cant change your husband, you cant change the past. But: you can change yourself. I would strongly suggest that you see a marriage counsellor (dont stick with one you dont like but check a few first) and a sextherapist. Then you will have all the fun you (and your husband) deserves back in your life. Good luck!
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It's not the men you really want sex with. You miss your sexlife as it was before your husband cheated on you and that was a time where you both had a "clean slate". The men you are desiring do 'so to speak
May 11, 2013 - 4:19am' represent that missing clean slate since you have no negative experiences with them. It would be a bit like a "fresh start" with each of them and therfore no negative feelings and therfore relaxter sex and lust. You cant change your husband, you cant change the past. But: you can change yourself. I would strongly suggest that you see a marriage counsellor (dont stick with one you dont like but check a few first) and a sextherapist. Then you will have all the fun you (and your husband) deserves back in your life. Good luck!
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