I hope I did not miss the last post; as I received a message there was one posted today, 12/24. I could
not find anything. I decided to post another comment, in the meantime. This has been a very different holiday time for me; as compared to so many past ones. I was always so 'into' the holidays. After the Hyst., I went downhill - as far as being the once vibrant woman I was. I used to get out all my holiday decorations, loved decorating our tree each year; as I had gotten so many wonderful and sentimental ornaments over the years. I did not have the energy to even put up a tree this year. My oldest daughter is married, and living in another northern part of our state. My son is staying with her over the holidays, and with my condition, and also fighting an open wound infection in my left leg right now - my husband said it was not worth it to have me do more damage to damage and worsen my left leg. We were fine with not having the decorations out this year, but still... I know this too - if it was not for the Hyst.; I would have still had the energy to put out the decorations. This is what is unseen with women who have been physically destroyed by having a Hyst., and I am one of thousands - if not millions. "Unseen", and I feel for the women who suffer with trying to carry on when the battle is awful. It is as if people choose to question when it is not a matter of questioning; it is a matter of understanding, and help in this fight to stop this insanity operation doctors can still get away with. So, this is what I have been thinking about over this holiday time; i.e., how this doctor changed my life by pushing me into an unnecessary operation, but this affected a very important time each year in my life. I do not have the energy to attend a traditional family Christmas Eve event held for 35+ years held at a cousin's home. This is the
unseen to this. People will say, "Where is ...?" (Meaning me). I am only wanting to tell them that this is due to the Hysterectomy, and how I want to go back to the person I was before this operation. This is why I go to these blogs. I want to save other females from experiencing anything as this. I mean it. I was a "VIBRANT", do it all, woman before this operation. I cringe at thinking even one more woman to be led and deceived this is what she needs to have done to her body to save her. I implore any female to heed my words, and do not do it!!! There are alternatives which most doctors will not suggest. This surgery should be a 0.1% and a last resort operation. Turn your heads away from any doctor who tells you otherwise, and guarantee you will thank people as me telling you this. Remember, there is no going back. So, research - go to the Hers Foundation website, and read EVERYTHING! View EVERYTHING! When you can, and find you can - also contact Nora Coffey. This woman is a savior for this cause - along with Rick Schweikert, and all the staff there. Nora and all of them would not be working so hard, for so long, on trying to help women from being deceived by doctors, if it was not the exact TRUTH. I would not be a testimony to this; except, it did happen to me; thus, I can speak with first hand experience. I would stand up and argue with anyone - whether a doctor or whoever. It is such a money making business for doctors, and this is why they castrate, and mutilate thousands of women each year. We are being de-humanized with this. I am so sick I did not know about this before. My life will never, ever be the same. I am thankful I have a loving husband. I do feel for the women who are married and don't. This Hyst. affects not only the female, but all who are around her. Some people just do not understand, and this is the other cruelty to this surgery. A woman has to be subjected to so called loved ones who do not want to "understand"...
Merry Christmas to all who read this. Happy New Year too. I wish for my "New Year" that I am heard,
and possibly save even one other female from having this done. This is my wish for Christmas.
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I hope I did not miss the last post; as I received a message there was one posted today, 12/24. I could
not find anything. I decided to post another comment, in the meantime. This has been a very different holiday time for me; as compared to so many past ones. I was always so 'into' the holidays. After the Hyst., I went downhill - as far as being the once vibrant woman I was. I used to get out all my holiday decorations, loved decorating our tree each year; as I had gotten so many wonderful and sentimental ornaments over the years. I did not have the energy to even put up a tree this year. My oldest daughter is married, and living in another northern part of our state. My son is staying with her over the holidays, and with my condition, and also fighting an open wound infection in my left leg right now - my husband said it was not worth it to have me do more damage to damage and worsen my left leg. We were fine with not having the decorations out this year, but still... I know this too - if it was not for the Hyst.; I would have still had the energy to put out the decorations. This is what is unseen with women who have been physically destroyed by having a Hyst., and I am one of thousands - if not millions. "Unseen", and I feel for the women who suffer with trying to carry on when the battle is awful. It is as if people choose to question when it is not a matter of questioning; it is a matter of understanding, and help in this fight to stop this insanity operation doctors can still get away with. So, this is what I have been thinking about over this holiday time; i.e., how this doctor changed my life by pushing me into an unnecessary operation, but this affected a very important time each year in my life. I do not have the energy to attend a traditional family Christmas Eve event held for 35+ years held at a cousin's home. This is the
unseen to this. People will say, "Where is ...?" (Meaning me). I am only wanting to tell them that this is due to the Hysterectomy, and how I want to go back to the person I was before this operation. This is why I go to these blogs. I want to save other females from experiencing anything as this. I mean it. I was a "VIBRANT", do it all, woman before this operation. I cringe at thinking even one more woman to be led and deceived this is what she needs to have done to her body to save her. I implore any female to heed my words, and do not do it!!! There are alternatives which most doctors will not suggest. This surgery should be a 0.1% and a last resort operation. Turn your heads away from any doctor who tells you otherwise, and guarantee you will thank people as me telling you this. Remember, there is no going back. So, research - go to the Hers Foundation website, and read EVERYTHING! View EVERYTHING! When you can, and find you can - also contact Nora Coffey. This woman is a savior for this cause - along with Rick Schweikert, and all the staff there. Nora and all of them would not be working so hard, for so long, on trying to help women from being deceived by doctors, if it was not the exact TRUTH. I would not be a testimony to this; except, it did happen to me; thus, I can speak with first hand experience. I would stand up and argue with anyone - whether a doctor or whoever. It is such a money making business for doctors, and this is why they castrate, and mutilate thousands of women each year. We are being de-humanized with this. I am so sick I did not know about this before. My life will never, ever be the same. I am thankful I have a loving husband. I do feel for the women who are married and don't. This Hyst. affects not only the female, but all who are around her. Some people just do not understand, and this is the other cruelty to this surgery. A woman has to be subjected to so called loved ones who do not want to "understand"...
Merry Christmas to all who read this. Happy New Year too. I wish for my "New Year" that I am heard,
and possibly save even one other female from having this done. This is my wish for Christmas.
Take care, everyone
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