My husband has suffered from penile dysfunction and premature ejaculation and is not so emotional distraught that he has refused to communicate or get help. He has been prescribed viagra and he has used it several times over the past year and a half (we have had little sexual intercourse over this period of time). When he takes it his skin gets warm and is erection last for 5 minutes which is sometime not long enough but I will take what I can. The last couple times his skin was not warm and he did not get an erection enough to have intercourse. I asked him if he took and and he will not answer my question straight up. He makes excuses. I believe he is not taking it. As of last week he informed me that he does not want to communicate at all about the subject and does not want to see a urologist after promising me he would. I believe there are major emotional issues that I can not do much about at this time. Unfortunately my sex drive is at its peek. My first marriage was 17 years and it was sexless. So I had high expectations in this relationship which adds to the problem. I am beside myself and find it extremely hard to concentrate. I have also been fantizing and thinking about having an affair to get my physical needs met. I do not want to risk destroying the marriage. Do you have any advise for me on how to involve him in this process or is there something I can do alone?
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My husband has suffered from penile dysfunction and premature ejaculation and is not so emotional distraught that he has refused to communicate or get help. He has been prescribed viagra and he has used it several times over the past year and a half (we have had little sexual intercourse over this period of time). When he takes it his skin gets warm and is erection last for 5 minutes which is sometime not long enough but I will take what I can. The last couple times his skin was not warm and he did not get an erection enough to have intercourse. I asked him if he took and and he will not answer my question straight up. He makes excuses. I believe he is not taking it. As of last week he informed me that he does not want to communicate at all about the subject and does not want to see a urologist after promising me he would. I believe there are major emotional issues that I can not do much about at this time. Unfortunately my sex drive is at its peek. My first marriage was 17 years and it was sexless. So I had high expectations in this relationship which adds to the problem. I am beside myself and find it extremely hard to concentrate. I have also been fantizing and thinking about having an affair to get my physical needs met. I do not want to risk destroying the marriage. Do you have any advise for me on how to involve him in this process or is there something I can do alone?
April 26, 2009 - 5:24pmThis Comment
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