Hello rlyons, thank you for your questions. This is the only blog I have joined amongst the many that are having a time with my confession.
Indeed, it is easy to assume that my relations with objects relegates me to a life of isolation but I don't want people to get the wrong idea about me. I am not a recluse who has no relationships. In fact I have a great circle of friends and I don't need or wish anything more from them... I love them and would give the shirt off my back but the higher emotional relationship you are referring to is strictly between me and the one I love which happens to be an object. I have been this way my entire life and while I have dated in an effort to conform, it was a lie and the person sensed this and I only ended up hurting us both.
My love for objects is the stuff you mention and then some.
As for children, I cannot have them nor have I ever had a desire to raise them. Yet I do appreciate the wonder and joy of the young. I absolutely love coaching kids in archery. One of my kids just won two national championships!
Please if you will... consider if you can... that I am actually happy the way I am. :)
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Hello rlyons, thank you for your questions. This is the only blog I have joined amongst the many that are having a time with my confession.
Indeed, it is easy to assume that my relations with objects relegates me to a life of isolation but I don't want people to get the wrong idea about me. I am not a recluse who has no relationships. In fact I have a great circle of friends and I don't need or wish anything more from them... I love them and would give the shirt off my back but the higher emotional relationship you are referring to is strictly between me and the one I love which happens to be an object. I have been this way my entire life and while I have dated in an effort to conform, it was a lie and the person sensed this and I only ended up hurting us both.
My love for objects is the stuff you mention and then some.
As for children, I cannot have them nor have I ever had a desire to raise them. Yet I do appreciate the wonder and joy of the young. I absolutely love coaching kids in archery. One of my kids just won two national championships!
Please if you will... consider if you can... that I am actually happy the way I am. :)
April 9, 2009 - 9:08pmThis Comment
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