This is the second time I post a comment here (in this article). We (Me and my wife) have been suffering this problem for almost 5 years. Our sexual life is almost nonexistent and this have caused us a lot of problems. I'm not pretty sure, but I think she is not using Mirena, eventhough she is using a IUS (Intra Uterine System) that's based on Levonorgestrel (the same Active Ingredient of Mirena). So as far as I can tell, this is the main reason our marriage is almost reaching a dead end.
It seems she doesn't matter to have a sexual intercourse with me, she avoid contact, postpone sex with a bunch of silly excuses, and when I talk with her about it she only says, don't worry I wi'll change this, its my fault, but everthing just keeps happening. I don't know that to do (and get it removed is not an option for us, as none of us want more kids). I think my marriage is getting closer to an inevitable divorce conclution. I still love her, but I just can't take it anymore.
By the way, this is my second marriage, I ended the first one because of a lack of sex, sometimes a think it was a precipitated decision as she (my first wife) was using a IUS too. We had the same talking to and in many times I told her that she didn't love anymore. As it turns out, here I am, getting through the same $h%^@t again. Some times I think I should never finish my first marriage just to be suffering the same problems again in my second marriage. I feel lost, depressed and without any resource left.
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This is the second time I post a comment here (in this article). We (Me and my wife) have been suffering this problem for almost 5 years. Our sexual life is almost nonexistent and this have caused us a lot of problems. I'm not pretty sure, but I think she is not using Mirena, eventhough she is using a IUS (Intra Uterine System) that's based on Levonorgestrel (the same Active Ingredient of Mirena). So as far as I can tell, this is the main reason our marriage is almost reaching a dead end.
It seems she doesn't matter to have a sexual intercourse with me, she avoid contact, postpone sex with a bunch of silly excuses, and when I talk with her about it she only says, don't worry I wi'll change this, its my fault, but everthing just keeps happening. I don't know that to do (and get it removed is not an option for us, as none of us want more kids). I think my marriage is getting closer to an inevitable divorce conclution. I still love her, but I just can't take it anymore.
By the way, this is my second marriage, I ended the first one because of a lack of sex, sometimes a think it was a precipitated decision as she (my first wife) was using a IUS too. We had the same talking to and in many times I told her that she didn't love anymore. As it turns out, here I am, getting through the same $h%^@t again. Some times I think I should never finish my first marriage just to be suffering the same problems again in my second marriage. I feel lost, depressed and without any resource left.
What else can I do?
May 6, 2015 - 7:41amThis Comment
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