Hi! I feel so sorry for you. But more so for your wife. I too am going through this - low sex drive - and it's relieving to see that it's NOT me, but the IUD that is causing it. As a wife I can tell you that it is heartbreaking for us not to want our man. We are helpless within ourselves. We feel like a total failure as a wife. But we did step up and get this IUD in so there would be no more kids (we have 4). My husband went for a consultation to get snipped but then couldn't go through with it and that's why I had to get this IUD again. And it sounds like you realize what is causing your wife's low sex drive. Good! :) So instead of putting you both through the heartache of a divorce, why don't you just have an open conversation about it with her (I know I am going to with my husband) and talk this through? Maybe she can get her IUD removed and YOU can step up an did something about the no-more-kids plan. I believe that if you love her, you won't be throwing her by the wayside (that's how it feel for her if you divorce her) but rather do an easy fix and get that thing out of her!
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Hi! I feel so sorry for you. But more so for your wife. I too am going through this - low sex drive - and it's relieving to see that it's NOT me, but the IUD that is causing it. As a wife I can tell you that it is heartbreaking for us not to want our man. We are helpless within ourselves. We feel like a total failure as a wife. But we did step up and get this IUD in so there would be no more kids (we have 4). My husband went for a consultation to get snipped but then couldn't go through with it and that's why I had to get this IUD again. And it sounds like you realize what is causing your wife's low sex drive. Good! :) So instead of putting you both through the heartache of a divorce, why don't you just have an open conversation about it with her (I know I am going to with my husband) and talk this through? Maybe she can get her IUD removed and YOU can step up an did something about the no-more-kids plan. I believe that if you love her, you won't be throwing her by the wayside (that's how it feel for her if you divorce her) but rather do an easy fix and get that thing out of her!
May 16, 2015 - 6:16amThis Comment
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