Thank you for your post. My daughter is 5, almost 6 and for years I thought it was other things, stress, busy schedule, hormones associated with birth/breastfeeding, etc. but at this point, I have zero response to intimacy at all!! And now I am thinking its time to look at my kid as the culprit. I hope I have the same response your wife has had. I love my husband dearly and don't want him to live his life in neglect.