I originally had Mirena put in 2 months after giving birth to my third child. I guess I never realized until now that it may have been what eventually caused my divorce. I thought my zero desire to have sex was more so because of the kids. I never wanted to have sex with my husband. He told me it made him feel insecure, neglected and less of a man. After my divorce and about 3 yrs with my Mirena, I met someone new and our sex life was like nothing I had ever experienced. Sometime having sex 3-4 times a day when possible. After the 5th yr with Mirena I had it replaced and it has been a nighmare ever since. My desire to have sex is completely gone. I don't even want to be touched and 4 play doesn't help. I don't want to loose my boyfriend like I lost my husband. I may be taking it out soon. It's just not worth it.