My gf has the mirena, her sex drive is now virtually non existant. I love her very much but couldn't figure out what's caused her to never want me. I'm athletic and good looking, other girls still want me, but I only want her. We still have sex, occasionally. Though its because I ask her if shes not attracted to me and why we don't have sex. Within a day she'll have sex with me but its apparent that it's because she feels bad, there's zero desire on her part. Yay, I had sex, I got off, but it's not fun. I intentionally get off as quick as possible now cause I feel bad.
I love her but it got to where I thought something was wrong and questioned proposing to her. Something made me search mirena, wow found the problem. Talked to her about it, and our current problems (only remote problem is intimacy, even kissing now!) She was very upset, mostly because it was effecting me so much that I researched it. She began crying and insisted on having it removed. Even though the reason she had it placed was severe cramping/menses. I feel horrible. I don't want to put her through this, but I love her and intimacy is a vital part of any relationship. I also don't want her to go through this horrid crash and I don't know when her sex drive will even return.