Im 21 he is 23, we have been together about a year. In the begining we had sex all the time. Now I'm lucky if I get it once a week and it seems to be getting closer to once every two weeks. I love him, I would never cheat on him...but I don't know what to do anymore. He doesn't want to have sex, sometimes we'll be in public and he'll tell me he wants to have sex when we get home but as soon as we get in bed he turns away from me and goes to sleep. I've never had a man I was dating turn me down before, I feel unwanted and my confidence is lowering. I'm adventurous in bed and I think I have a decent body...so I don't know why he doesn't want it? He's 23 these should be his prime years? He doesn't have a problem getting hard, in fact sometimes he'll be hard so I'll try to initiate sex but he says he's not horny (then why is he hard?) I know his last girlfriend rarely had sex with him so maybe that's why? When I ask him about it he says he's still attracted to me and he says there is no real reason why he doesn't want to. Just that he doesnt feel like it and it makes him mad when I ask him. I'm frustrated and crying all the time because of how unwanted I feel...I know its not good for me to feel this way. I don't want to leave him because I love him and he has good qualities...but I don't know how long I can let myself feel this way.
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Im 21 he is 23, we have been together about a year. In the begining we had sex all the time. Now I'm lucky if I get it once a week and it seems to be getting closer to once every two weeks. I love him, I would never cheat on him...but I don't know what to do anymore. He doesn't want to have sex, sometimes we'll be in public and he'll tell me he wants to have sex when we get home but as soon as we get in bed he turns away from me and goes to sleep. I've never had a man I was dating turn me down before, I feel unwanted and my confidence is lowering. I'm adventurous in bed and I think I have a decent body...so I don't know why he doesn't want it? He's 23 these should be his prime years? He doesn't have a problem getting hard, in fact sometimes he'll be hard so I'll try to initiate sex but he says he's not horny (then why is he hard?) I know his last girlfriend rarely had sex with him so maybe that's why? When I ask him about it he says he's still attracted to me and he says there is no real reason why he doesn't want to. Just that he doesnt feel like it and it makes him mad when I ask him. I'm frustrated and crying all the time because of how unwanted I feel...I know its not good for me to feel this way. I don't want to leave him because I love him and he has good qualities...but I don't know how long I can let myself feel this way.
February 24, 2013 - 10:51amThis Comment
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