ladies, find out of your man watches porn..it has been studed that it lowers their interest in their partner..
go to: www.yourbrainonporn.com
read some of the testimonials from the men...it might be surprising to you
My boyfriend and I have been going out for over 7 years and I noticed in the past year and half that the passion faded, and hardly had sex...one time I didn't initiate sex just to see how long it would take for him to initiate..and he never did..I ended up giving in bcuz obviously I have needs(it lasted 3 months)..and then I tried again but still gave in and initiated sex(that lasted 2 and a half months). the sex is never good like it use to be..it's the same old routine.... I recently found porn on his phone and he has masturbated in the bathroom with his phone in the morning..assuming I was asleep.. But if you go to the website I think it could help anyone who is in the same situation as me...show the site to him...I have read a lot of good things from women when they showed their man the site..but just make sure he fits the criteria first...I'm still working on my man...I feel like if he doesn't realize he doesn't need to make a change....I don't think I can live a life with someone when the relationship does not feel complete....everything else is great, and he's affectionate...but passion is gone and sex is very rare for us. I use to feel like the problem was me but I have read so many testimonials from women and a lot of what I read have the recurring theme of their boyfriends/husbands watching porn...but never having sex with them.
good luck ladies..we're all together in this.