I am in a relationship where there is alot of stress at work. Long hours and alot of mental work put in. And my boyfriend also has scoliosis of the spine. We have great sex when we do, however, just because there is less sex does NOT mean a cheater! We talk about everything, we know everything about each other and believe me I have been in a cheating relationship and with that one the sex was awesome all the time....so dont necessarily think the worse.
If the communication is there, the understanding is there, it will work thru.
I do some little things to make him want to have sex, little text messages during the day, when I am certain the stress at work is tremendous, I send a little text.
I also send cards to his work some naughty and some just to let him know what he means to me.
I have turned the tv off after dinner and said okay it's "us" time now.
Face it different than not saying anything at all, or thinking the worse, or forbidden keeping it to yourself.
Communication is the important part in a relationship. Without that you dont have anything to build on.
My boyfriend and I do not live together we are also middle age........I am 45
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I am in a relationship where there is alot of stress at work. Long hours and alot of mental work put in. And my boyfriend also has scoliosis of the spine. We have great sex when we do, however, just because there is less sex does NOT mean a cheater! We talk about everything, we know everything about each other and believe me I have been in a cheating relationship and with that one the sex was awesome all the time....so dont necessarily think the worse.
September 8, 2009 - 3:42pmIf the communication is there, the understanding is there, it will work thru.
I do some little things to make him want to have sex, little text messages during the day, when I am certain the stress at work is tremendous, I send a little text.
I also send cards to his work some naughty and some just to let him know what he means to me.
I have turned the tv off after dinner and said okay it's "us" time now.
Face it different than not saying anything at all, or thinking the worse, or forbidden keeping it to yourself.
Communication is the important part in a relationship. Without that you dont have anything to build on.
My boyfriend and I do not live together we are also middle age........I am 45
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