I am very glad to have discovered that I am not the only, that there are many more woman who have the same issue as I do. I am 22 and my bf is 25 we have been dating for 2yrs and been living together for a year. Like all of you have said, the first yr was the best when our sexual appetite was at its peak, but for the past 5-6 months things have changed we started to have less sex, while in the beginning we were having sex 3-4 times a week, it decreased to 1-2 times a week and now it's been a 6 weeks and we have had ZERO sex, and he doesn't even try to; I even tried to get some but he just wasn't into it. We have talked about the decreased in our sex life and he says that he doesn't want to do it due to religious reasons. He claims to feel guilty after having sex because he has this new found belief that sex should be just between married people. However, I find this reason to be completely ridiculous as we live together and are not married. I know he is not looking at porn and I am 90% he is not cheating on me, I know it seems like I should just leave him, but I love him a lot and he has been my first and only bf and I still want to be with him, I am just really frustrated at the situation. WHy does it suddenly seem like I am the only one interested in having sex? the one who has to do the chasing? It is really annoying and almost makes me wanna give up because I am young and feel that I deserve to have a full and balanced life where my bf loves & cares for me, and has sex with me and doesn't feel guilty cuz we are not married.
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I am very glad to have discovered that I am not the only, that there are many more woman who have the same issue as I do. I am 22 and my bf is 25 we have been dating for 2yrs and been living together for a year. Like all of you have said, the first yr was the best when our sexual appetite was at its peak, but for the past 5-6 months things have changed we started to have less sex, while in the beginning we were having sex 3-4 times a week, it decreased to 1-2 times a week and now it's been a 6 weeks and we have had ZERO sex, and he doesn't even try to; I even tried to get some but he just wasn't into it. We have talked about the decreased in our sex life and he says that he doesn't want to do it due to religious reasons. He claims to feel guilty after having sex because he has this new found belief that sex should be just between married people. However, I find this reason to be completely ridiculous as we live together and are not married. I know he is not looking at porn and I am 90% he is not cheating on me, I know it seems like I should just leave him, but I love him a lot and he has been my first and only bf and I still want to be with him, I am just really frustrated at the situation. WHy does it suddenly seem like I am the only one interested in having sex? the one who has to do the chasing? It is really annoying and almost makes me wanna give up because I am young and feel that I deserve to have a full and balanced life where my bf loves & cares for me, and has sex with me and doesn't feel guilty cuz we are not married.
September 11, 2009 - 12:43amThis Comment
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