Sad to say, but reading all these made me feel a bit better- depressing as that may sound. I'm not the only one. Boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and a half years. First year, we had a lottt of bumps in the road. Fighting, breakups you name it. BUT we still had great sex. he actually used to be a 'ladies' first kinda guy. I used to receive oral 3-4 times a week, followed by sex. It was amazing. Now, I can't even remember the last time I got it. Must be 3 months ago? Depressing. I still gave him oral, to kinda trigger maybe sex or him returning the favor- nothing. Gave me a couple of 'oh man that was great's and soon after falls asleep. So, I resulted to the 'well i'm not giving anything to you then' hoping that maybe he will realize and be a bit more generous. Obviously that hasn't been working out if i'm googling WHY MY BOYFRIEND DOESN'T WANT ME ANYMORE. Aside from the 'pity' sex a few days ago, we have gone 2 months without sex. He always falls asleep. He has the most stressfree job. He sits there.. and maybeeee answers an occasional phone. He knows he has the simplest job ever. School JUST started so there are no tests coming up, nothing. One time he even fell asleep when i was giving him oral. Is that even possible?! I'm getting down on myself, trying to lose weight (even though i'm only 120), tone up, haircuts, make up, the works. I'm so miserable with myself because of this situation. I'm losing it for him.. and I think the only thing that will make me feel better is if we break it off. At least I won't bare another nights disappointment. I'll let you know how it goes...
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Sad to say, but reading all these made me feel a bit better- depressing as that may sound. I'm not the only one. Boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and a half years. First year, we had a lottt of bumps in the road. Fighting, breakups you name it. BUT we still had great sex. he actually used to be a 'ladies' first kinda guy. I used to receive oral 3-4 times a week, followed by sex. It was amazing. Now, I can't even remember the last time I got it. Must be 3 months ago? Depressing. I still gave him oral, to kinda trigger maybe sex or him returning the favor- nothing. Gave me a couple of 'oh man that was great's and soon after falls asleep. So, I resulted to the 'well i'm not giving anything to you then' hoping that maybe he will realize and be a bit more generous. Obviously that hasn't been working out if i'm googling WHY MY BOYFRIEND DOESN'T WANT ME ANYMORE. Aside from the 'pity' sex a few days ago, we have gone 2 months without sex. He always falls asleep. He has the most stressfree job. He sits there.. and maybeeee answers an occasional phone. He knows he has the simplest job ever. School JUST started so there are no tests coming up, nothing. One time he even fell asleep when i was giving him oral. Is that even possible?! I'm getting down on myself, trying to lose weight (even though i'm only 120), tone up, haircuts, make up, the works. I'm so miserable with myself because of this situation. I'm losing it for him.. and I think the only thing that will make me feel better is if we break it off. At least I won't bare another nights disappointment. I'll let you know how it goes...
September 23, 2009 - 8:37amThis Comment
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