You are not "supposed" to do anything. Everything depends on you, your partner and the specifics of your relationship. There are so many things that could be going on. If he is stressed, tired and feels pressure to "perform," that is not very motivating, and you may just need to relax and understand for a while. If there are other problems between the two of you -- perhaps with communication, or friends/family, or money -- those things tend to affect how things are in the bedroom as well. Or if you've been together a long time, you may just be in a transition phase where the two of you need to talk about this so that you understand how he's feeling and he understands that you are feeling rejected and unattractive.
How long have you been together? How old are you, and how old is he? Are there other things going on between the two of you that contribute to this?
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Anon,
You are not "supposed" to do anything. Everything depends on you, your partner and the specifics of your relationship. There are so many things that could be going on. If he is stressed, tired and feels pressure to "perform," that is not very motivating, and you may just need to relax and understand for a while. If there are other problems between the two of you -- perhaps with communication, or friends/family, or money -- those things tend to affect how things are in the bedroom as well. Or if you've been together a long time, you may just be in a transition phase where the two of you need to talk about this so that you understand how he's feeling and he understands that you are feeling rejected and unattractive.
How long have you been together? How old are you, and how old is he? Are there other things going on between the two of you that contribute to this?
October 29, 2009 - 8:13amThis Comment
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