I am in a similar situation to all of you and reading all this is making me more upset. I have been with my boyfrieng for 6 months. In the beginning our sex life was amazing. For the past two months it has dwindled. I am always satisfying him and getting nothing in return. He doesn't look at me when I undress, it is almost like he looks away. He is not the cheating kind and we spend most of our free time together so I definitely do not think he is cheating. When I brought it up a few times he got upset and said im beautiful, theres nothing wrong with me, etc. etc. and that the more I brought it up the more I was pushing him away. I shut my mouth and just hoped it would get better. It didn't. He has back problems which I completely understand, but it is not all the time..so why when his back doesnt hurt, does he still not want me? I feel so hurt and insecure. I brought it up again and he acted like it was a new topic he said he never wants me to feel that way. I kept bringing up how it was in the beginning to show him that im not making this up in my head. He told me that in the beginning he was so excited to meet someone so great that he put everything else to the side and that once we realized we loved eachother all the stuff that he put aside (work, bills, etc.) has taken over him. I dont know what to believe anymore. That almost made me feel like okay, you were great until we were comfortable in love and now you dont feel the need to keep me?
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I am in a similar situation to all of you and reading all this is making me more upset. I have been with my boyfrieng for 6 months. In the beginning our sex life was amazing. For the past two months it has dwindled. I am always satisfying him and getting nothing in return. He doesn't look at me when I undress, it is almost like he looks away. He is not the cheating kind and we spend most of our free time together so I definitely do not think he is cheating. When I brought it up a few times he got upset and said im beautiful, theres nothing wrong with me, etc. etc. and that the more I brought it up the more I was pushing him away. I shut my mouth and just hoped it would get better. It didn't. He has back problems which I completely understand, but it is not all the time..so why when his back doesnt hurt, does he still not want me? I feel so hurt and insecure. I brought it up again and he acted like it was a new topic he said he never wants me to feel that way. I kept bringing up how it was in the beginning to show him that im not making this up in my head. He told me that in the beginning he was so excited to meet someone so great that he put everything else to the side and that once we realized we loved eachother all the stuff that he put aside (work, bills, etc.) has taken over him. I dont know what to believe anymore. That almost made me feel like okay, you were great until we were comfortable in love and now you dont feel the need to keep me?
October 31, 2009 - 3:20pmThis Comment
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