I need some advice. I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year and 3 months, and at first the sex was great. We had sex everyday, up to 3 times a day. It has slowly gotten less and less. Now we are down to once per week, but I feel like it is going to be more now. He told me that he doesn't like when I touch him intimately, it makes him feel uncomfortable... I just don't understand why it would make him feel that way. We used to touch each other all the time. I liked that we could intimately touch without it meaning anything. Just because we are touching each other, doesn't mean we have to have sex. Now, he won't touch me. He kisses me and says he loves me, but it's almost like my sexual areas are off-limits. I hate it, because he actually did cheat on me, before we hit our one year, and I decided to stay with him and move to florida with him because he swore it wouldn't happen again and I wanted to give him another chance. Because he cheated on me, I almost need more attention in every aspect and I'm not getting it. I love him so much, but I feel so hurt, I just don't know what to do. I can't help feeling he is attracted to somebody else now. Why wouldn't he want to have sex with me? Please help me!
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I need some advice. I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year and 3 months, and at first the sex was great. We had sex everyday, up to 3 times a day. It has slowly gotten less and less. Now we are down to once per week, but I feel like it is going to be more now. He told me that he doesn't like when I touch him intimately, it makes him feel uncomfortable... I just don't understand why it would make him feel that way. We used to touch each other all the time. I liked that we could intimately touch without it meaning anything. Just because we are touching each other, doesn't mean we have to have sex. Now, he won't touch me. He kisses me and says he loves me, but it's almost like my sexual areas are off-limits. I hate it, because he actually did cheat on me, before we hit our one year, and I decided to stay with him and move to florida with him because he swore it wouldn't happen again and I wanted to give him another chance. Because he cheated on me, I almost need more attention in every aspect and I'm not getting it. I love him so much, but I feel so hurt, I just don't know what to do. I can't help feeling he is attracted to somebody else now. Why wouldn't he want to have sex with me? Please help me!
November 15, 2009 - 9:16amThis Comment
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