Thank you for your question. Cheating is a hard thing to deal with on both sides. He feels like he has let you down and men tend to not want to deal with the emotional baggage that we need as women to feel as if it will not happen again. In men's eyes, sex is not an emotional attachment and we think completely different. As for the woman's side, we need them to be sorry for the deed as well as make us feel like we are number one again after the indiscretion. See where there will be a disconnect? Understanding these ideologies may help understanding him.
When he cheated before, did the sex slow down or were you in the same predicament as you are now? Are you seeing the signs of infidelity?
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Thank you for your question. Cheating is a hard thing to deal with on both sides. He feels like he has let you down and men tend to not want to deal with the emotional baggage that we need as women to feel as if it will not happen again. In men's eyes, sex is not an emotional attachment and we think completely different. As for the woman's side, we need them to be sorry for the deed as well as make us feel like we are number one again after the indiscretion. See where there will be a disconnect? Understanding these ideologies may help understanding him.
When he cheated before, did the sex slow down or were you in the same predicament as you are now? Are you seeing the signs of infidelity?
November 15, 2009 - 10:28amThis Comment
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