Thank you google... I am not alone!
I'm 26 my boyfriend is 32. We once had an amazing sex life, this slowed down, obviously as our relationship came out of the honeymoon period. We have now been together 4.5 years and I don't think I can do this much longer. Went to once a week and is now once every few weeks. Argh! I am very sexual woman and this used to be something he was very excited about but now seems like a hinderance! I have said things, heard the usual... Tired etc, he once said stop pressuring me. I gave up coming on to him, so it has been infrequent and on his terms for a year now. We are different emotionally and I am more tactile than him which is something I could live with if I was getting my needs fulfilled. I no longer feel loved or appreciated. I have just lost my 19 year old sister and realise that life is far too short to not be as happy as you possibly can be. We are going on holiday next week and this will be my last ditch attempt to revamp our relationship. If this doesn't work I will be letting him know exactly what I want out of our relationship and will not settle for less than what I need/want, he can then choose if he wants me or not. I know this may sound harsh but hey if the shoe was on the other foot he woulda cheated or left by now. Oh yeah on that note i don't believe he has cheated as we live together, he rarely goes out, doesn't hide his phone etc...
Aside from my plan would be grateful for any input
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Thank you google... I am not alone!
November 18, 2009 - 6:49amI'm 26 my boyfriend is 32. We once had an amazing sex life, this slowed down, obviously as our relationship came out of the honeymoon period. We have now been together 4.5 years and I don't think I can do this much longer. Went to once a week and is now once every few weeks. Argh! I am very sexual woman and this used to be something he was very excited about but now seems like a hinderance! I have said things, heard the usual... Tired etc, he once said stop pressuring me. I gave up coming on to him, so it has been infrequent and on his terms for a year now. We are different emotionally and I am more tactile than him which is something I could live with if I was getting my needs fulfilled. I no longer feel loved or appreciated. I have just lost my 19 year old sister and realise that life is far too short to not be as happy as you possibly can be. We are going on holiday next week and this will be my last ditch attempt to revamp our relationship. If this doesn't work I will be letting him know exactly what I want out of our relationship and will not settle for less than what I need/want, he can then choose if he wants me or not. I know this may sound harsh but hey if the shoe was on the other foot he woulda cheated or left by now. Oh yeah on that note i don't believe he has cheated as we live together, he rarely goes out, doesn't hide his phone etc...
Aside from my plan would be grateful for any input
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