I'm going to answer without reading any other comments...sorry if I'm telling you nothing new:
Its one of the following -
* You've become unattractive to him (i.e. Gained weight, done something to your body that turns him off but he is too much of a jackass to tell you - or something like that)
* He's very stressed out and feeling inadequate (i.e. Lost his job, is getting hammered by his asshole boss, or perhaps you have emasculated him somehow by your words or actions and made him feel like less of a man etc.)
* He is having "guy issues" (i.e. Can't get it up)
* He feels he can't do the things with you that he wants...so he's using porn (or worse - someone else) to find the thrill
* He is cheating on you and is too much of a pussy to tell you
Its one of these, and you'll notice I didn't say that its your fault necessarily. You may have done something UNKNOWINGLY that has turned him away. He should be enough of a human being to come out and tell you though to give you the option to a) fix it or b) tell him to hit the road.
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I'm going to answer without reading any other comments...sorry if I'm telling you nothing new:
Its one of the following -
* You've become unattractive to him (i.e. Gained weight, done something to your body that turns him off but he is too much of a jackass to tell you - or something like that)
* He's very stressed out and feeling inadequate (i.e. Lost his job, is getting hammered by his asshole boss, or perhaps you have emasculated him somehow by your words or actions and made him feel like less of a man etc.)
* He is having "guy issues" (i.e. Can't get it up)
* He feels he can't do the things with you that he wants...so he's using porn (or worse - someone else) to find the thrill
* He is cheating on you and is too much of a pussy to tell you
Its one of these, and you'll notice I didn't say that its your fault necessarily. You may have done something UNKNOWINGLY that has turned him away. He should be enough of a human being to come out and tell you though to give you the option to a) fix it or b) tell him to hit the road.
January 12, 2010 - 6:34amThis Comment
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