Alison,
I still think that it's a little unusual that there are so many young women complaining of this problem. Sure, there are SOME men who are not very sexual and this changes throughout our lives, but the sheer number of ladies complaining of disinterest from their relatively young partners, coupled with pornography use, smells a bit suspicious to me.
The men I have known in my life at different times in my life, seem very driven by sex. In fact, in my current relationship, my man tells me that women will never understand how driven men are by sex. He talks about how much sex he and his friends would have, given the chance. He would have sex with me more than once a day if I would let him.
Now, he used to be a porn user and NEVER wanted sex with me as he was addicted to the porn. When he gave it up, he slowly gained more interest in me. He tells me, like many of the men in my life have, that when he used porn, the variety of women and ease of orgasm made it so that sex with a woman just seemed like work. Now he can't get enough of me.
Yes, men are tired and insecure and gassy (as you put it) sometimes, but in my experience(and I am no spring chicken and no virgin), a man will very often WANT to release stress by having sex or using porn.
And if he IS using porn, he probably will not want to bother going to the trouble of seducing his woman as the porn is easy, more varietal and doesn't require any stimulation.
This to me, is sad. I strongly urge women out there to start saying no to porn in any form in their lives and I bet they will end up having more sex. Either that or no boyfriend as Gen Y is more and more addicted to porn use. Whatever will happen to the human race!? LOL
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Alison,
March 14, 2010 - 4:13pmI still think that it's a little unusual that there are so many young women complaining of this problem. Sure, there are SOME men who are not very sexual and this changes throughout our lives, but the sheer number of ladies complaining of disinterest from their relatively young partners, coupled with pornography use, smells a bit suspicious to me.
The men I have known in my life at different times in my life, seem very driven by sex. In fact, in my current relationship, my man tells me that women will never understand how driven men are by sex. He talks about how much sex he and his friends would have, given the chance. He would have sex with me more than once a day if I would let him.
Now, he used to be a porn user and NEVER wanted sex with me as he was addicted to the porn. When he gave it up, he slowly gained more interest in me. He tells me, like many of the men in my life have, that when he used porn, the variety of women and ease of orgasm made it so that sex with a woman just seemed like work. Now he can't get enough of me.
Yes, men are tired and insecure and gassy (as you put it) sometimes, but in my experience(and I am no spring chicken and no virgin), a man will very often WANT to release stress by having sex or using porn.
And if he IS using porn, he probably will not want to bother going to the trouble of seducing his woman as the porn is easy, more varietal and doesn't require any stimulation.
This to me, is sad. I strongly urge women out there to start saying no to porn in any form in their lives and I bet they will end up having more sex. Either that or no boyfriend as Gen Y is more and more addicted to porn use. Whatever will happen to the human race!? LOL
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