My boyfriend and i have been together for about a year and a half now and honestly he is 99.9% perfect. The problem is that he has lost interest in sex and i know exactly what you guys have been saying about trying to touch him, trying to seduce him and being rejected. I was a very sexual person with a really high drive but now i get really shaky whenever i even think about trying to initiate sex. It's so embarrassing when he laughs off your intentions as though the whole idea of touching me was a joke. We've tried talking about it but he just goes defensive, i've tried to find out what causes this (stress, depression, lack of interest, am i doing something wrong). Before i met him i was pretty damn carefree where sex was concerned but now i'm hurting so bad. I spent alot of money on new lingerie, i've tried wearing the things he likes, i've cooked him meals and given him backrubs, just taken care of him. Last night he surprised me in the bathroom and i thought say no otherwise it will last 5 minutes and that'll be it, he won't take care of me. I gave in, we had sex...it lasted 5 minutes and then he ignored me for the rest of the night. It hurt so much i pretty much felt like my heart had been broken. I tihnk my demands/needs will ruin our relationship and i'm so scared.
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My boyfriend and i have been together for about a year and a half now and honestly he is 99.9% perfect. The problem is that he has lost interest in sex and i know exactly what you guys have been saying about trying to touch him, trying to seduce him and being rejected. I was a very sexual person with a really high drive but now i get really shaky whenever i even think about trying to initiate sex. It's so embarrassing when he laughs off your intentions as though the whole idea of touching me was a joke. We've tried talking about it but he just goes defensive, i've tried to find out what causes this (stress, depression, lack of interest, am i doing something wrong). Before i met him i was pretty damn carefree where sex was concerned but now i'm hurting so bad. I spent alot of money on new lingerie, i've tried wearing the things he likes, i've cooked him meals and given him backrubs, just taken care of him. Last night he surprised me in the bathroom and i thought say no otherwise it will last 5 minutes and that'll be it, he won't take care of me. I gave in, we had sex...it lasted 5 minutes and then he ignored me for the rest of the night. It hurt so much i pretty much felt like my heart had been broken. I tihnk my demands/needs will ruin our relationship and i'm so scared.
March 30, 2010 - 2:24amThis Comment
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