I have got to say...this sounds exhausting to me! I understand that sometimes people in relationships will use different tactics to get what they want...we all do it to some degree. However, it usually does not involve something as intimate as, well, being intimate! I still think the best way to be truly physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually intimate with your partner is to be open, honest and authentic. When we lose our authentic selves to get what we want, to have it work for a time and then must play the game all over again, repeatedly, is time to reevaluate the relationship, do some soul searching, counseling or all the above.
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I have got to say...this sounds exhausting to me! I understand that sometimes people in relationships will use different tactics to get what they want...we all do it to some degree. However, it usually does not involve something as intimate as, well, being intimate! I still think the best way to be truly physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually intimate with your partner is to be open, honest and authentic. When we lose our authentic selves to get what we want, to have it work for a time and then must play the game all over again, repeatedly, is time to reevaluate the relationship, do some soul searching, counseling or all the above.
May 23, 2010 - 6:23pmThis Comment
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