hi there, funny you should suggest that the girl gets dressed up and meet him at the door.
my BF and i have been together for 3 years, built a house, have a dog, ect and our sex is good- awesome but he likes to be in control. what i mean by that is if i want sex.. he is more inclined to say no cause " im tired" becuase i have instigated it and not him. this is very common in blokes as they feel less of a man if the woman takes charge.
today he sent me some dirty texts on his way home from work, so i decided to be spontaneous, put on my best pants n bra, make myself look hot- (and i felt like shit today too)and wait at the door for him.. he walked in.. laughed and said i got to go back to work-(he comes and gets changed and heads back) and i said it can wait... and he said no. why? quote...." you know i dont like to do it unless i instigate it". i admit i was really hurt and pissed off at this he was being a total ass, but when i think about it, its very true. men are strange when it comes to sex. we had a dry spell becuase i wanted sex and he was sick of me asking.. so i stopped, turned him down for almost 2 months and it was like when we first met. if u dont think about it-- it will happen, and if u have a man like mine- good luck love- he is the nicest man iever met but by crickey- i could shoot him in the balls sometimes..
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hi there, funny you should suggest that the girl gets dressed up and meet him at the door.
my BF and i have been together for 3 years, built a house, have a dog, ect and our sex is good- awesome but he likes to be in control. what i mean by that is if i want sex.. he is more inclined to say no cause " im tired" becuase i have instigated it and not him. this is very common in blokes as they feel less of a man if the woman takes charge.
today he sent me some dirty texts on his way home from work, so i decided to be spontaneous, put on my best pants n bra, make myself look hot- (and i felt like shit today too)and wait at the door for him.. he walked in.. laughed and said i got to go back to work-(he comes and gets changed and heads back) and i said it can wait... and he said no. why? quote...." you know i dont like to do it unless i instigate it". i admit i was really hurt and pissed off at this he was being a total ass, but when i think about it, its very true. men are strange when it comes to sex. we had a dry spell becuase i wanted sex and he was sick of me asking.. so i stopped, turned him down for almost 2 months and it was like when we first met. if u dont think about it-- it will happen, and if u have a man like mine- good luck love- he is the nicest man iever met but by crickey- i could shoot him in the balls sometimes..
June 5, 2010 - 11:24pmThis Comment
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