It's like i'm reading my whole life when I read these comments. My BF and I have been together for 6 years, and through all of this he has been in the military so some of our time was spent in a long distance relationship as I recently got out. We currently live together and have for almost two years. He recently got stationed at a new duty station and has been working extra hours which is his excue for our non existent sex life. In my opinion this is no freaking excuse because this has been the case since before he got this job. Currently we haven't had sex for over 2 months, and when we do have sex, most of the time it's all about him and I don't usually initiate it because i'm too embarrassed at this point which sounds stupid I know but due to our low sex life and my now losw self esteem i'm too embarrassed to try any seductive techniques, as if they would work anyway. I love him and I had my hopes of marriage, which he talks about but lately i'm starting to feel myself fall out of love with him. He say's be patient, work will slow down and things will improve, and I know that he's making excuses. He masturbates to porn all the time, I caught him once, and this was during one of our sexual dry spells. So WTF? You can deny me sex in our relationship, i've even offered to watch porn with you to try and entice you but NOOOOOOOOOOO so you wait until I go to work and you turn on the porn, that's not fair to me.
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It's like i'm reading my whole life when I read these comments. My BF and I have been together for 6 years, and through all of this he has been in the military so some of our time was spent in a long distance relationship as I recently got out. We currently live together and have for almost two years. He recently got stationed at a new duty station and has been working extra hours which is his excue for our non existent sex life. In my opinion this is no freaking excuse because this has been the case since before he got this job. Currently we haven't had sex for over 2 months, and when we do have sex, most of the time it's all about him and I don't usually initiate it because i'm too embarrassed at this point which sounds stupid I know but due to our low sex life and my now losw self esteem i'm too embarrassed to try any seductive techniques, as if they would work anyway. I love him and I had my hopes of marriage, which he talks about but lately i'm starting to feel myself fall out of love with him. He say's be patient, work will slow down and things will improve, and I know that he's making excuses. He masturbates to porn all the time, I caught him once, and this was during one of our sexual dry spells. So WTF? You can deny me sex in our relationship, i've even offered to watch porn with you to try and entice you but NOOOOOOOOOOO so you wait until I go to work and you turn on the porn, that's not fair to me.
September 2, 2010 - 5:58amThis Comment
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