Please know that is completely normal---and healthy!---for a relationship to start out "hot and heavy" with frequent sex, and then this decreases over time for the vast majority of couples. It is healthy because as the couple grows and matures together, they find other enjoyable activities to do together, as well as separately. As individuals get older, the hormones are not quite so strong as when you are teenagers when it feels "uncontrollable" at times. This is part of the maturation process, and can be a good sign in your relationship that other things are important to each of you.
If you are thinking that your boyfriend is cheating on you, there must be other signs or concerns you have observed besides "only" having sex every few weeks? How is your relationship in other ways? Do you have mutual trust, respect, open communication, honesty and an overall healthy relationship? Do you have physical intimacy in other ways besides intercourse? Do you feel emotionally and mentally connected with one another? Are you both happy spending time together, apart as well as with friends?
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Have you talked with him about your concern?
Please know that is completely normal---and healthy!---for a relationship to start out "hot and heavy" with frequent sex, and then this decreases over time for the vast majority of couples. It is healthy because as the couple grows and matures together, they find other enjoyable activities to do together, as well as separately. As individuals get older, the hormones are not quite so strong as when you are teenagers when it feels "uncontrollable" at times. This is part of the maturation process, and can be a good sign in your relationship that other things are important to each of you.
If you are thinking that your boyfriend is cheating on you, there must be other signs or concerns you have observed besides "only" having sex every few weeks? How is your relationship in other ways? Do you have mutual trust, respect, open communication, honesty and an overall healthy relationship? Do you have physical intimacy in other ways besides intercourse? Do you feel emotionally and mentally connected with one another? Are you both happy spending time together, apart as well as with friends?
September 12, 2010 - 7:34pmThis Comment
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